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Estee Goren
Marriage Counseling & Couples Therapy

Relationship Counseling for Individuals and Couples

I am a marriage and family therapist and life coach, providing marriage counseling, couples therapy, and individual coaching. My practice is focused on helping individuals and couples transform their relationships and create fulfilling and joyful lives.
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Estee Goren

Estee Goren, MFT

About Me

Marriage and Family Counseling, Life Coaching

I offer a safe and accommodating environment, where we can work together to resolve challenges, overcome obstacles, and support your needs.

I believe that therapy is a collaborative process, where the relationship between a therapist and their patient is paramount. My philosophy is to work with you in an authentic, supportive, and nonjudgmental way.
My purpose is to provide insight, guidance, and effective long-lasting solutions that can be explored and discovered together.

I am insightful, inquisitive, and supportive, and I engage my clients in encouraging, pragmatic, and humorous conversations. My goal is to help you gain a new perspective, improve your quality of life, overcome difficulties, and pursue personal growth.

Opening up to a stranger is difficult. I invite you to explore my website and contact me to schedule a session. You can ask questions, talk about your desires, challenges, and goals, and discuss how I might help you to achieve your personal best.

“Put your ear down close to your soul and listen hard.”

- Anne Sexton
About Me

My Therapy Approach

Life is filled with challenges and opportunities that affect each of us differently. Our response to these demanding or motivating situations will shape our life and possibly allow us to experience life to its fullest.

As a relationship therapist and coach my focus is on helping people to deal effectively with their situation by increasing self-awareness and improving relationships at home, with friends, and at work.

I use an eclectic approach combining psychodynamic, cognitive, solution-focused, strength-based, and narrative therapy in order to help clients acquire better insight and understanding. I utilize a variety of therapeutic tools and methods to help clients make better choices and improve the quality of their lives.

If you are looking for support and guidance through a challenging situation, or you are simply ready to move in a new direction in your life, I look forward to working with you to define and achieve your most desired wishes.

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My Specialty

Couples Therapy and Marriage Counseling

Helping partners give and receive love, gain feelings of intimacy and trust, and transform their relationships to a joyful and fulfilling journey.

Affair Recovery

An affair is a secret emotional and/or sexual relationship a person has outside of a committed relationship, either in person, by telephone, or online.

Premarital Counseling

Premarital counseling is a type of therapy that helps couples prepare for their marriage. It provides a strong foundation for a healthy long-lasting relationship

Family Therapy

Helping family members improve communication, resolve conflicts and address specific issues that impact the connection and joy in the family.

Testimonials

What My Clients Say

LB - Danville, CA
Estee is one of a kind. She is a great listener, a wonderful communicator and she helped us get through a very difficult time. When looking for a therapist, it can be hard to find someone that you both click with and someone who is able to get through to you and your significant other. Estee did just that for us. I would highly recommend her for couples or individual counseling....I did both.
LE - Concord, CA
Estee is amazing!! My marriage was at an all time low and we needed help. So thankful we found Estee and decided to trust her with our world. We are in a much better place in life and I truly believe we could not have gotten here without her help and guidance. Absolutely worth every penny and every minute!
TS - San Francisco, CA
Estee really helped provide my wife and I the tools to help prevent divorce. She has some great tools, is very fair, balanced and calming - but doesn't shy away from gently calling folks out and helping to reframe communications, thought processes and actions on both partners for the benefit of the relationship. We would highly recommend.
LM - San Ramon, CA
Estee really helped my husband and I begin to see each other in a new (or maybe old) way... Because of that we decided to recommit to our marriage and take a hard look at our own contributions to what made it so hard in the first place. I'd highly recommend Estee if your looking for tools to manage your relationship and get to the heart of what brought you to her in the first place.
NS - Denver, CO
Estee has been pivotal in helping my spouse and I move from a very low point in our marriage to the best we've ever been in a matter of only six months. She is amazing at listening without judgement, helping us see the other person's side, then teaching us to navigate through challenges in a productive way. I can't say enough wonderful things about her and would recommend her to anyone who is truly looking to save or better their marriage.
HN - CA
We were going through a very tough time and needed help to save our marriage. Estee helped us through that very difficult time. Because of Estee we are now happy again and have built a stronger relationship. We highly recommend Estee for couple counseling!!!!
BA - Fremont, CA
Certain moments in a marriage can draw the line in the sand, especially when there are beautiful children involved. Estee was extremely helpful in offering support and perspective. My husband and I experienced so much relief after each session with Estee and felt heard by a non judgmental 3rd party. We truly appreciated her soft approach to therapy. We highly recommend her sympathetic advice and will continue to work with her.
KE - Dublin, CA
I have been to many counselors in my life, and Estee ranks at the top for me. She is a gift to this world as a great counselor and therapist. I believe she truly cares for her client’s well-being and success in life. I would feel good recommending her to friends and family.
S - Concord
“You gave me my life back. You were my lifeline.”
H - Pleasanton
“I can't thank you enough... I really appreciate you listening and supporting me! You also made me feel so relieved when I realized I didn't HAVE to.... What an insight!! You are one incredible therapist!!”
E. - Alamo
“You have been wonderful and have "saved" me. I don't know what I would do, if I could not talk with you.”
CA
"My husband and I saw Estee just for a few sessions, a week before we relocated to another state. She was very accommodating with her schedule to try to fit in as many sessions as she could before our move so that we could be in a better place in our relationship before relocating. She did wonders in one week and I'm very grateful for her help. She is professional, kind, a good listener, and to the point in her sessions. I recommend her to anyone going through issues in their relationships."
M. - Alamo
"Estee is caring, a great listener, and very understanding. She always made me feel like I was her only patient. I'd highly recommend her to anyone, particularly those out there who may not have ever been to a therapist, or are less comfortable opening up. She is fantastic! She gave me the tools to make some big changes in my life. She has been nothing but supportive and warm."
G. - Alamo
"As a life coach, you did a fantastic job... You have helped me to see the true nature of my problems and have given me very good, solid, actionable advice on how to begin to recover and rebuild."
T.W. - Tracy
"I am so grateful to you for all the help you have given my daughter. She has done very well, and I am pleased it was all done without medication. I cannot thank you enough!!"
M. - Walnut Creek
“After I lost a very close friend of mine, I was shaken, depressed, and vulnerable. You have been fantastic at getting me through this troubling time. You were like nobody else in my life. You are one of the best listeners I know; thoughtful, caring and empathetic. I can honestly say that you are the reason I am still married to my husband. At this time of thanksgiving, I want to say that I appreciate you so much and am grateful that the fates brought me to you.”
E. - Lafayette
"I want to thank you for all you have done for me... Always felt you really care, not just doing your job".
C. - Danville
“Thank you for providing dedicated counseling for my husband. Day by day I see him going from being vulnerable and fragile man to a more confident and stronger person. With your help my husband is weathering life storms by channeling them into understanding and wisdom. When I see him thriving, I smile with my heart and mind. This is happiness to me."
M. - Pleasanton
"I just wanted to thank you for all the wonderful guidance and support ... This is a new life for me right now with new challenges, both physically and emotionally, and I am not sure about the best way to deal with some of them. The advice, information and support from you meant a lot."
J. & D. - Brentwood
"Our couples' counseling experience with Estee was productive and effective. Her direct approach is what we found to be most important. She targeted our issue in a comfortable atmosphere which allowed us to process our issues quickly and thoroughly. Her knowledge and expertise guided us to solutions that worked for us. We highly recommend Estee! "
JE - Danville, CA
5 Stars doesn't say enough about Estee! Her warmth and compassion are evident upon meeting her, she feels like that friend you can trust to listen and advise without judgement, while guiding in a gentle and comfortable way. Estee put me at ease and made each session valuable where I would leave recognizing what I learned and the new tools I had to help me along the way. Estee is fabulous at what she does, and then she is just a fabulous person!
VD - Hayward, CA
After 25 years of marriage our relationship needed a tune-up. Estee made us both very comfortable and relaxed right away. During joint and individual sessions, she got to know us and our situation when she started offering her tips to improve our relationship. She listened well, never took sides, and asked questions to make us think. Estee has a real knack for getting to the heart of a situation to give relevant suggestions. We got enormous help. We highly recommend Estee Goren!
HA - San Ramon, CA
Estee is such a great therapist. She is extremely professional, compassionate, and knowledgeable. When I met her for the first time, I felt very comfortable talking to her about any issues that I had, like an old friend. She always patiently listens to what you have to say. I encourage anyone that is looking to make a positive change in, or to take better control of, their lives, to give Estee an opportunity to help them.
CT - Concord, CA
Estee is very knowledgeable and caring. She listens with intention and compassion and shares her great knowledge and insights in a way that is clear and applicable. Each and every session has been incredibly helpful, eye opening and impactful. I feel so lucky to be able to turn to Estee for her invaluable perspective.
JE - Danville, CA
I highly recommend Estee for anything you, as a couple, need to work through. She is compassionate and very knowledgeable. We had some really hard and painful things that we had to work through and she got us through, all while making our marriage stronger than ever before.
MD - Alamo, CA
Estee is a compassionate listener who can get to core issues quickly and accurately. She offers practical real world suggestions not as solutions but as steps for me to find solutions. I've seen many therapists and wish I'd found her sooner. She makes the appointment process simple and has patient-convenient hours.
AK - San Jose, CA
Estee helped me through a difficult time in my life. I appreciate how much she really listened. She had wonderful tools. I would definitely recommend Estee.
RM - Martinez, CA
Estee had an amazing ability to listen to my issues and thoughts and quickly get to the root of what my issue was. She is extremely efficient, without ever making me feel rushed or shortchanged. If you are seeking therapy, chances are you are seeing some tough times. Estee has one of the most pleasant dispositions, which makes opening up to her so easy. She certainly helped myself and my family through some tough times. I could not give Estee a higher recommendation.
CH - Livermore, CA
Had a great experience with Estee. Very understanding, excellent at her job. Help out very much with the issues we were having and opening lines of communication. Would highly recommend to any couples needing help in their relationship
JB - San Ramon, CA
Estee's great. I'd never been to a therapist before, but I needed help working through some marital issues. Estee was kind, she seemed genuinely concerned, and she offered sound guidance without being pushy. She definitely exceeded my (admittedly low) expectations. I almost wish I had more problems so I could keep seeing her. Recommended without reservation.
MO - Danville, CA
So very happy to have found Este. She is warm, caring, and only has her patient’s best interest at heart. Anyone would be lucky to have Este as a counsellor and would benefit greatly from her gentle coaching.
CE - Corvallis, OR
My husband and I saw Estee just for a few sessions, a week before we relocated to another state. She was very accommodating with her schedule to try to fit in as many sessions as she could before our move so that we could be in a better place in our relationship before relocating. She did wonders in one week and I'm very grateful for her help. She is professional, kind, a good listener, and to the point in her sessions. I recommend her to anyone going through issues in their relationships.
AS. - San Ramon, CA
Estee helped me thru a rough patch in my life. She made me feel very comfortable which made me real happy. If you want someone who can understand you and make you see things in a different light, I suggest her. I really appreciate everything she did for me.
TW - Livermore, CA
My daughter saw Estee for a year and half and I cannot thank her enough for what she has done for my daughter. The best thing I feel she came out with more awareness of her feelings and self confidence all without having to take a whole regiment of medication. This was slow and steady and most certainly worth the patience time. I would recommend whole hands down over and over.
BP - Danville, CA
I have been going to Estee for counseling for about 3 years. After suffering a family tragedy and feeling depressed, Estee has helped guide back to where I need to be. She has provided thoughtful guidance and direction to keep me focused on what I should be accomplishing for my family. I highly recommend her.
EC - Walnut Creek, CA
Thank you Estee for your great work! My wife became a patient of Estee's due to a sudden and tragic death in her family. Because of the severity of the experience, both my wife and I met with her and immediately experienced a sense of relief knowing that someone with real compassion & empathy, superb listening skills, and much valuable experience was going to help us through this painful experience. Our experience with Estee has been very positive, and efficient too! I wholeheartedly endorse Estee.
PA - Danville, CA
Estee was very helpful to me in working through some problems. She is very kind and helpful and really gets to the root of what is bothering you. I would recommend her to someone who is looking for guidance
MB - Pleasant Hill, CA
I saw Estee for more than two years during one of the darkest times of my life. For various reasons I was a mess, couldn't stop crying, and I wondered if I would ever feel any better. After just a few minutes of talking with Estee, I knew I had in her a special confidant, someone who got me and understood, without judgment. She was kind, thoughtful, and empathetic. She was a great listener, open-minded, intelligent, and, most of all, wise. I highly recommend her
CA - Danville, CA
Estee is a warm, caring, compassionate person. She is very patient and is someone you feel very comfortable talking to about any issue. Sometimes you need someone to talk to that doesn't know anything about you and can provide a new prospective. I highly recommend Estee.
MB - Alamo, CA
Estee is caring, a great listener, and very understanding. She always made me feel like I was her only patient. I'd highly recommend her to anyone, particularly those out there who may not have ever been to a therapist, or are less comfortable opening up. She is fantastic! She gave me the tools to make some big changes in my life. She has been nothing but supportive and warm
PS - Danville, CA
I appreciated her guidance and professionalism immensely. She is a terrific listener & I found her guidance extremely helpful
MF - Danville, CA
Estee has a very fair and open minded approach. This was new for my husband and me, however, we were going through challenges and needed to seek outside guidance. I really valued Estee connecting with my husband and me separately, and then together to get to know us and how to align us again as a team. Estee's diverse background, cultural awareness and even keeled approach was very effective. Very thankful we opened up to Estee and allowed her to get us back to a better place!
DC - San Francisco, CA
Estee provides valuable and reflective feedback that enhances the counseling experience. There is consistency between sessions and genuine desire to work on one's core areas of concern. She's very warm yet highly professional, striking a nice balance of boundaries and compassion. I can't say enough positive things about Estee and her wonderful practice.
VA - Redwood City, CA
I went to Estee during a very difficult time in my life. She has been and continues to be instrumental in helping me get through those tough times. I truly believe Estee has a gift for helping people, she has a genuinely caring interest in her clients success. I've been to other therapists in the past, but what makes Estee stand out, is her ability to create a lasting connection with her clients, as well as a passion for coaching them towards their dreams and goals.
TJ - Modesto, CA
I came to Estee during an extremely low point in my life. She helped me process and work through the end of a toxic marriage. I brought my new relationship to her for what I hope will be, a much healthier relationship. I know I will continue to come to her for whatever work I need to do in my life. She's honest and provides feedback. She's the sweet version of Dr. Phil's 'tell it like it is' style!
CF - Pleasanton, CA
My husband and I have been going to see Estee, off-and-on, for about six months. She is a fantastic therapist. She is a great listener, very insightful, and most importantly and she is easy to talk to. She patiently listens to us and thoughtfully provides us with her perspective on things. I would definitely recommend her.
TH - Danville, CA
I have been to counselors since college. It wasn't for my craziness! I had anxiety issues with being a perfectionist and then adjusting to my life as a professional at a young age. I have been to therapists that were terrible as I look back. She gives me feedback and I think I like that. I like her approach. She has become my life coach and I absolutely love her.
CF - Alameda, CA
My 14 Y/O daughter feels very comfortable with Estee and I attribute that to Estee's warm and compassionate nature. She is an avid listener and has been instrumental in encouraging my daughter to open up to her. We will continue this relationship and I encourage others to connect with Estee -- she can do great things for you as well.
SW - Dublin, CA
I was referred to Estee by a friend and I'm so glad I met her! Estee is very warm and pleasant and has a natural ability in helping others feel comfortable in sharing their deepest thoughts. Not only is Estee a great listener, but she has a gentle and effective way of helping people get to the root cause of their fears and concerns and guiding them to take the necessary steps toward a happier place in their life...and now I'm in a much happier place in my life thanks to her 🙂
MK - Walnut Creek, CA
I saw Estee for career advice and she was wonderful. He calm and focused personality and her knowledge were extremely helpful. I highly recommend her if you are at a cross-road between a 'blah' job and something you've always been passionate about but afraid or unsure how to start. Thank you Estee!
AH - San Francisco, CA
I went to Estee after the passing of my dad. Every session I had with Estee, I learned more about myself. She helped me to heal, when at times I didn't think it was possible. She is so wise and caring. I unfortunately moved to San Francisco or else I would still be seeing her! I would recommend her to anyone!
DF - San Ramon, CA
Estee and I are work colleagues. Her ability to help her clients, think clearly through their issues, express their needs and bring resolution to the issues at hand make her a very practical and skilled therapist. I would not hesitate to refer to her!!
EL - Pasadena, CA
Estee and I are colleagues - I am a fellow Marriage and Family Therapist. Estee is warm, caring, and compassionate. She is a skilled clinician who is passionate for her work. She listens intently and she responds with empathy. While she is a very gentle person, she is direct and proactive in the therapy process.
LM - Pleasanton, CA
Estee is a wonderful Therapist. She is a very warm and caring and passionate person. She understood completely the emotional aspect of the patients who were going through treatments or post treatments and offered guidance on how to best overcome those emotions. She is one of the best Therapist I have ever met. Thank you Estee for all the support you have given us. I highly recommend her services.
TT - Dublin, CA
I met Estee at the Valley Cancer support group in Pleasanton. Estee is very compassionate and has been able to give very good advice to those going through treatment. She's helped us make decisions with our families & brought valuable information regarding dealing with cancer. I highly recommend her.
DR - San Ramon, CA
I have, and will continue to recommend Estee without hesitation. I met Estee 10 years ago and have always admired her intelligence and calm and even demeanor. She is warm, empathetic, clear, non-judgmental and direct. She listens and cares. I believe these traits coupled with Estee's passion for helping others is a winning combination.

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What Our Clients Say

“I can't thank you enough... I really appreciate you listening and supporting me! You also made me feel so relieved when I realized I didn't HAVE to.... What an insight!! You are one incredible therapist!!”
H. - PleasantonCA
"As a life coach, you did a fantastic job... You have helped me to see the true nature of my problems and have given me very good, solid, actionable advice on how to begin to recover and rebuild."
G. - AlamoCA
"I am so grateful to you for all the help you have given my daughter. She has done very well, and I am pleased it was all done without medication. I cannot thank you enough!!"
T.W. - TracyCA
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